Just sounds like you backed the wrong horse and you’re regretting it. Just be happy VA exists at all and your points aren’t lost forever (remember Ansett) 

I'm a pretty dedicated QF flyer, but I have done VA J and those few times have been ‘fun' but I'm kind of appreciative of the QF professionalism because I'd trust them more if there is an issue. Plus I appreciate the lounge as VA's offer feels too much like an Apple store to me and whilst I love ...

Me too!

I’d agree except I think the new QF LHR lounge is better than the BA T5 Flounge

Domestic QF Priority is kind of pointless but as I prefer an exit row I need all bags up so I get going as soon as the lounge calls the flight. This way my bags are usually close to me. Overseas some airlines are full on about dealing with priority AA and BA come to mind. But for the best show ...