I had to prove so many things to see my mum pass away, just to get out, I didn't want to leave my son and wife. I had to choose, but I had the extenuating circumstances required to leave, surely they are the same circumstances allow me to return? 

Honestly I can't tell you how insanely terrifying it is to be kept away from your family against your own will and be completely helpless. 9 weeks ago I got a flight to the UK left my son and my wife under duress after trying three times to be allowed to leave to go and see my mother who had...